Stupid Things People Say

So, I have started compiling a list of stupid stuff people say after losing 3 kids (2 miscarriages) and struggling with secondary infertility.

1.  "Wow, you will have been pregnant 3 times in the time she has been pregnant!"

2.  "Relax, just relax."

3.  "My friend had 4 miscarriages in a row and then got a 3 year old from Russia."

4.  This was while discussing names for our future children.
       me:  "I like the names Juliette and Michael for our next kid."
       other person:  "if you can have more kids."

5.  "God has a plan." 

6.  "Well something wasn't right with that baby anyway."

7.  "You should just be greatful you have one healthy child."

8.  And the absolute worst thing anyone has said to me...
               ~saying nothing at all~